I'm a top, but I've talked on here about experimenting with bottoming, cause I've seen the pleasure that a guy can get from having his prostate messaged by the shaft and head of a cock as it slides in his ass. There is also the feeling across the buttocks of another guys body, as he slams his cock into your ass. So I know that it's possible to have the feelings, but when I started I could barely feel anything.
Skip ahead a few months and I continue to work with a dildo, and the occasional help of my buddy, I've gotten better at bottoming and having those feelings. I now know the feeling of having a cock in my ass as it hits my prostate and my cock starts leaking cum. The feeling isn't the same as when I jack off or when I cum after topping a guy, and I can see where it might be better.
Now I'm worried that I might become more of a bottom than a top guy. Is this something to be concerned about?
As long as you're having a good time, nothing to worry about.
ReplyDeleteBlkJack
You should only worry if you live in my town, where it seems everyone is a bottom and there are not enough tops to go around.
ReplyDeletei agree with blkjack - if it feels good - keep doing it. don't worry about top, bottom, versatile, oral-only, anal-only or anything else - just enjoy getting your rocks off and those of your partner(s)!
ReplyDeleteyes, you know you should ;)
ReplyDeleteYou know even some very masculine wouldn't mind taking it from the rear door and there are plenty of accounts telling you about the pleasures of feeling a cock inside doing unspeakable sexual stimulations that would make him give up his masculinity.
Once you like it you seek more and you'll soon meet the good, the bad and the ugly. The good makes you glad to be his bitch; the bad makes you his bitch and you learn to like it; the ugly makes you wonder why didn't walk away, is this a latent type of s&m where you get tortured?
All in you get to raised your legs frequently because a live cock is always more activated than a dildo.
I think we get too caught up in "roles." I identify as a Top. When I was younger I didn't identify as anything. I just did what felt good at the time. A lot of men hold on to the term top because of how society looks at a man who takes it up the butt. ( not picking on you Anon) But If you are staying top just so you don't be perceived by society as less than masculine, then you are worrying for the wrong reason and being part of the problem that plagues the image of the gay man. Now if there are other concerns I would love to know what they may be.
DeleteMaybe I could offer you some advice.
I believe the one thing you have to be worried about is that if you do bottom more you may be very frustrated taking the ratio of bottoms to top is about 1,000 to 1. So I say keep getting ass as a top . and understand its easier to get ass than it is to get dick. I can tell you why that is if you are curious.
Mark
The Male Casting Couch