I just spent two and a half hours earlier this evening, over at two guys house, watching television. On the surface there is nothing gay about this in the least.
Now for the details:
I had taken my shirt off and put on a cock ring within two minutes, after four minutes I was naked on the bed admiring said cock ring on my cock. After ten minutes I started to notice that there are veins in my penis that I didn't know about before, and I may be bigger than I've been telling people if I wear a cock ring all the time. Is there really anything gay about this? I've done things similar to this when I've been by myself, so not gay.
The television was on, and man-on-man gay porn was playing the entire time, so yeah this part was pretty gay, can't really get around that, though all the actors were very masculine.
The other two guys were in the room and they were naked like myself, though I have been in rooms where men are naked, and just a naked man stroking himself does not make things gay. Though in this case if you asked the two guys if they were gay, they would say yes that they were. Still sitting in a room with two gay guys stroking my cock while wearing a cock ring, I can still tell myself that this wasn't gay.
When the one guy reached over and started to stroke my cock and shortly there after try to put all eight inches down his throat, yeah that pretty gay, or is it. Just because a guy is performing a physical act of pleasure on my cock, does note make me gay, even if I need to redefine the definition of gay. Though in terms of motion there is little difference from shaking another persons hand repeatedly with saliva and lube involved, than what he was doing so eloquently, and yeah there was his mouth involved.
The next act is a little more involved and even I have to contend that the act of putting a condom on my cock and putting it inside the receptive orifice of another person is a gay thing to do, but does that mean that only gay people can do it? I would beg to differ, as I'm not gay, yet did just that.
The condensed version of the time spent, minus the few minutes that the above mentioned activities took place, was that three guys sat in a room talking about the weather, travel, and a whole bunch of other stuff, for two and a half hours. There was male bonding at a level that all public meetings would never be able to obtain. So now I have bonded with these guys, and when we meet again our past shared experience will make us friends.
As an older (53) gay guy who came out at 20, and fought during the HIV crisis years (1980's & 90's) to be "queer & here", doesn't gay mean anything today other than "that's gay-It's gay-Your so gay," all of which don't seem to be complements. Is it still so strange/difficult (that if you like/love/enjoy all things dick... sucking, sticking, rings, showing, getting, giving, touching) to be called gay? I am gay and also, so much more.
ReplyDeleteGay is a label that was fought for, and as with most things that are fought for after the fight is over, it becomes a more acceptable thing. I'm not saying the fight is over yet, but most of the opposition has retirement on their horizon, and it really takes a generation or two for things to be real different. That why "you dang kids, get off my lawn" is something said by a person generally over the age of 50. I think humans in general always seem to need an enemy, maybe evolution is that one day we will all live in peace, until then thanks for your effort.
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