So here is what happened.
Was over at my buddy's house, two tops and a bottom. I was the first one to top the guy and after a few minutes of pumping his ass I was ready to cum, then I sat back and watch my buddy to the same thing. It didn't stop there because I still had an erection that varied from semi soft to hard: an odd state of existence for an erection, after having cum once and trying desperately to make a second go of it for the evening.
The second time I was topping the guy, I was taking it slow, feeling how the bottom was taking my cock. The whole experience was a great sensation of various ways my cock slides around inside a guys ass. At times I would just slowly feel the first few inches of my cock slide in and out slowly experiencing only the sensation of the tip of my cock. At times I watched as the bottom slide up and down on my cock with him in control of all the movement. At times I had created a rhythm of slamming into his ass from tip of cock to base. I think this is the one the guy liked the most, as ripples of pleasure surged through his body. Little hints in his body and movements keyed me in to doing the right thing for this guy, and the guy got about forty minutes of activity out of me, on top of my first time, and my buddy. While I was doing all of this my buddy was on the couch watching the whole thing, and enjoying the show.
So the etiquette question comes in at the end, as we were dressed about about to depart for the night, I didn't hug the bottom guy, just shook his hand and said I really enjoyed the nights activities. What I don't know is the proper way to end an evening in a situation like this. Should I have hugged him, should I have done something more, I don't know. Next time I think I'm going to give him a hug before we depart. If anyone has any suggestions, I would like to hear them.
this is easy...do what you did the second time you topped the guy...key in on him. does he seem like he'd appreciate a hug or not? you can tell from his body language. btw...while you were going slow...could you tell when your cock came in contact with his prostate or g-spot? IMHO...that's what will separate you from any ordinary top...using ur cock to stimulate his g-spot. you should be able to feel it and chances are that's when he'll moan the loudest or shudder the most. a top who knows how to do that is an artist.
ReplyDeletecheers!
I already knew that I was an artist, thanks for the reassurance on this level.
ReplyDeleteMy cock head was all over that prostate. The different motions and depth is about the feeling on my cock, and its the prostate and feel of the ass that makes it all work. There's a symbiotic relationship between cock and ass, and spending the time to find the nuance of a guy's ass is worth the effort for me, and for him.
Give him a kiss goodbye next time.
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear I'm not the only one who doesn't know when a hug is warranted or not. Sometimes a hug just seems, well, a little gay.
ReplyDeleteI guess if the shoe fits.
Jack.
Yeah, I have no idea either. For me, it depends on the level of intimacy shared during sex. For most of my quick and dirty fucks, we barely talk let alone kiss, hug, etc. We both thank each other and I leave.
ReplyDeleteHowever, if the connection during sex is greater and there's a level of interaction while fucking that involves kissing, caressing, etc. then a hug is warranted.
My mind goes to the ending scene of "Babe"
ReplyDeleteThe farmer says. "That'll do, Pig."