So I've been thinking of trying my hand at bottoming again. The idea of having a cock move in and out of my ass is appealing on a certain level. I see the guys that I top, and I know that they're getting a lot of pleasure from my cock as it goes in and out of their ass, so there must be something there. So I was over at my buddy's place where we play with bottoms on a somewhat regular basis, this night though the only bottom that could make it was two hours late and had to leave shortly after he got there. So it seemed a good night to getting my buddy's cock into my ass.
Now my buddy says that he is nine inches, and after the first time that I bottom, I thought that size might make a difference. My buddy's cock, just a bit shorter than me at time, is definitely wider than my cock. So I spent the time cleaning out (do bottoms do that all the time? REALLY? that was a new experience.) I bent over on the ottoman, and my buddy was going to take it slow and gentle as he lubed up my ass.
To make a long story short (no one wants to hear me scream) the whole experience was like trying to take a shit while bouncing on a bouncy ball., and I think that would have been more enjoyable. There wasn't a spark like last time, it was just the feeling of wanting to evacuate my bowels. So bottom line on my second bottoming I feel like Goldilocks, first cock was two small, second cock was to big, so now I need to find one just the right size. I'm not going to rule out bottoming ever again, cause I see so many guys that get so much pleasure from it, and I don't know if I'm just not built for being a bottom, or if it's just the right size cock that is going to finally make me a bottom. Until then I'm a top that is not interested in a guys cock up my ass for a few months, or longer.
If I ever find my doppelganger out there, I'm definitely going to try bottoming again, but until then my ass is closed till some future date of my choosing.
My first ever anal I had the feeling of turd coming in and out. I haven't felt that since then no matter what size. I hope to experience it again.
ReplyDeleteamtop...buddy...ill tell you what ive been telling scott for the longest time: it's not the size of the cock. it's who's fucking you. it doesn't take brains or skill to shove ur dick up some guy's ass. to fuck a guy so that he experiences real pleasure...takes someone who knows what they're doing. i'd bet that maybe 50% of tops AND bottoms don't have a clue how to really give pleasure. it's just wham OUCH bam OUCH thwack, thwack, thwack....mmmmmmmm...aaaaa. ugh! where do you live again? maybe i can stop by your place going or coming from scott's and take care of both you guys. LOL.
ReplyDeletecheers!
rugby, I know the guy can fuck properly, I've seen him do it, I'm just not sure if I can be fucked properly, it may be a mental thing on my end, but the world does need tops. You want to instruct me in the way of bottoming, bring it on, you want to show up in my neck of the woods, I just might give up my ass to you.
ReplyDeletehey buddy,
ReplyDeletei'll be happy to...in all seriousness...offline. there really are a few simple things that can greatly improve the experience for the bottom. wow...it would be an honor and privilege to top you amtop. but i hope we could then flip. i'm all uber top too but i'd like to get a taste of your mighty cock...in both ends. the mere thought's got me rock hard and drippin. LOL.
cheers!
@amtop: perhaps the reason you haven't found the joys of bottoming is because this is just your 2nd time i.e. you haven't loosen up down there yet. Personally I prefer the pain. I really want the top to hurt me as much as he could.
ReplyDeleteHow big was the first cock you took? And how big was the second one? Was it really that different?
ReplyDelete@Anon 5:29 the difference was 6.5 vs 9 in length and 5 vs 7+ in girth.
ReplyDeleteFrom my experience bottoming, whether or not it is pleasurable depends mostly on the circumstances surrounding the fucking. There have been times when I'm getting fucked that I'm just want the top to get done with it so that we can move on to something else and then there are times where I have really enjoyed the "scene" and shot multiple loads over time (the one I'm thinking of right now was a four-hour session where I came three times and he withheld his coming until my ass was unable to fuck anymore that day). There have also been "scenes" I've enjoyed where I didn't come and just enjoyed being fucked in a variety of positions (submitting to another man's pleasure can be a heavenly and liberating experience at times).
ReplyDeleteWhile topping and bottoming are different from each other, this may be a significant question: do you always really enjoy topping or do you sometimes just fuck a guy to be done and over with it (say, a hook-up that didn't meet your expectations or one where something else distracted you from the hook-up)?
Your second time bottoming sounds like you were doing it more from a "what the hell, why not" attitude and curiosity rather than a desire for your friend to fuck you. To some extent, you've got to want to get fucked instead of just doing it to pass the time or passive interest.
Also speaking from my own experience, unless the guy's really big or really small (anything outside of the 5-7 inch range), it doesn't make much of a difference and comes down to how the top uses his cock. When it gets big (and that second cock is massive, even I wouldn't have touched it if it was my second time), it just isn't pleasurable or takes too god damn long to be pleasurable. Usually a lot of the guys cum before you can get loose enough.
ReplyDeleteI know the feeling of wanting to take a dump whilst being fucked. Its there for the first few times, remember your ass has only been used to one way traffic for 30odd years! It takes some getting used to being fucked.
ReplyDeleteBut as you clean your self out, you know that there is nothing down there to evacuate, so mentally just go with flow.
You might even try the motions of "evacuating" all it'll do is make more room for the cook going in, and letting it in easier.
I for one is primarily a top, but do like the odd session of being poked, so much in fact that I have been known to com just from getting rogered.
One of the things I really enjoy is fucking wearing a cockring with a buttplug attached. That like fucking and getting fucked at the same time - amazing, only down side you get so much stimulation that you come faster.
There's a few things I can suggest.
ReplyDeleteFirst plan to use an enema or whatever you use, about an hour before you meet. Should be the first stage. Then just before you start, clean out a second time. That should do it. In addition to making sure you're cleaned out, it should prevent your from feeling like you have to sh* t.
Second, take his dick slowly, with you controlling it, by having him lie on his back and you just lowering yourself onto his dick. You control it, the speed that you're doing it, and you can slowly take him to the hilt, and stay there, let your butt get used to something in it that big. If it is painful as you're doing it, just rise up, wait a few seconds and slide down again.
This should assist you a lot, and then you can switch to other positions, and you should enjoy it.