Below is the copy of my ad that I placed on Craigslist, looking for a biking partner. Several candidates, but have yet to meet up with any of them for riding due the the weather, schedule and a few other things. I ended up getting six responses, a third from guys that I think just wanted to see a biker naked, a third from guys that are just starting out biking (not fast enough for me,) and a third that seemed to be a good match. With the exception of two of them, they are all guy on guy virgins, and just curious but have never acted on anything with another guy.
If anyone is reading this and has tips on how to seal the deal with a curious guy without freaking him out I would like to hear. The two best candidates, I've basically taken the getting naked part off the table to concentrate on the riding, I'll just have to see how things go.
Riding Partner - m4m - 45
I'm looking for a bi married guy, masc guys, discrete guy, basically a guy with a dick and the desire to play with another guys dick that will never talk about what happens between two guys to anyone.
If you like to ride a bike on the River Trail and have any curiosity to mess around with another guy, them we could be a match. I'm looking for someone to ride with in the afternoons after work, and sometimes on Saturday mornings. Speed doesn't matter, experience doesn't matter, just have a bike, and the inclination to want to see another guy naked. (note: nakedness and riding will not happen at the same time, I have a private place for that)
If you want to send a picture on the first email, make it of your bike, as this is about finding someone that has the potential for a friend with benefits, and not a simple hookup. That being said, we can keep it anonymous until we are both comfortable about meeting.
Put "Biker" in the subject line to distinguish between a real person and a bot sending out crap.
If you like to ride a bike on the River Trail and have any curiosity to mess around with another guy, them we could be a match. I'm looking for someone to ride with in the afternoons after work, and sometimes on Saturday mornings. Speed doesn't matter, experience doesn't matter, just have a bike, and the inclination to want to see another guy naked. (note: nakedness and riding will not happen at the same time, I have a private place for that)
If you want to send a picture on the first email, make it of your bike, as this is about finding someone that has the potential for a friend with benefits, and not a simple hookup. That being said, we can keep it anonymous until we are both comfortable about meeting.
Put "Biker" in the subject line to distinguish between a real person and a bot sending out crap.
First - Damn, I wish we lived a lot closer. We would enjoy the ride, well both rides :-)
ReplyDeleteWhen you wrote "river ride" I tgought you live near me in the Boston area. We have a river ride around the Charles River.
Second - with a curious guy, you really just need to be not in a hurry. So first make him comfortable with You. So go riding and spend some time talking. Then you start slow like just getting naked together, maybe jerking off together. Keep talking but never get pushy, but you need to be the gentle aggressor. Just think back when you were curious guy and pretent to be one.