After looking at the pic I posted the other day, and getting with my Latino boy recently, combined with my own attempts at bottoming, I tend to think that the penetration while most of the feeling a bottom gets, but not all. When I tried to bottom, when my ass made maximum contact with the top, and he was balls deep in my ass, there was a feeling I would describe as a spark. When I make full forceful contact with a bottom in the same situation, I can see that they are getting waves of pleasure through their body.
My other buddy, that likes to take an 18" dildo after I open him up and cum, says that a dildo feels good, but not a substitute for the real thing. I'm wondering if my body slamming into a bottom is all that I think it is, I know I like making as much skin to skin contact as possible when fucking a bottom.
My opinion based on experience having bottomed and topped is that skin to skin contact is very important. I have never really received much pleasure being fucked when the only contact is his cock pounding my ass. I have typically tried to pull him closer to me in order to get that skin contact. As a top, I know that my bottoms really enjoy when I put my full body weight on them while fucking. It's ok to pull away and just pound, but that can't be the only thing that a good top will do.
ReplyDeleteGuys, agreed! As a bottom, feeling the full weight of a top is a definite plus. The skin to skin thing is like completing an electrical circuit. As a top, I always make sure I get in balls deep. It always leads to the bottom calling for a repeat performance ;-)
ReplyDeleteWhile full body contact is good for the bottom, I like it also, as a top. The one exception is when I have the first few inches of my cock in the guys ass, and I slowly move in and out, really hitting that prostate with my cock head. That's some good times too.
ReplyDeleteSkin to skin contact is very important. better if you are HAIRYYYY.... I have never really received much pleasure being fucked when the only contact is his cock pounding my ass. But i noticed too that top enjoy a lot TO SEE how his cock is going inside my anus. i let them to see but then i love take his arms arround my neck very tight very close
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