Is it just me or when I'm chatting with someone on one of the hook-up sites, things feel like there are moving toward a face to face meeting. I almost always want a face to face to allow one of us the out, before we take any step into each others personal space. In the chats, everything seems to be moving forward, then I type the equivalent of my foot in my mouth statement and then nothing.I sometimes wonder if the guy on the other end just decided that that was the thing that turned me from a hot guy to a cold weirdo. To make me feel better, I tell myself that the zombie apocalypse has started and he was the first victim, or that, people have intruded on his personal space and he had to shut everything down to keep the bad people from finding out that he was chatting with me.
The reality is that even I have to stop things in mid sentence sometimes, due to work, visitors, or just the call of nature, its not going to stop my imagination from thinking the worst about what I wrote, or what is happening on the other end of the broken connection.
Also in my minds eye, all the guys that I chat with online look like this, its amazing what a good photographer can do to the male body to make everyone look hot.
Dude. I seriously doubt it was the photographer that made the above photo hot, unless of course, it was a self portrait.
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